- limited interests or an unusual preoccupation with a particular subject to the exclusion of other activities.
- repetitive routines or rituals.
- peculiarities in speech and language, such as speaking in an overly formal manner or in a monotone, or taking figures of speech literally.
- socially and emotionally inappropriate behaviour and the inability to interact successfully with peers.
- problems with non-verbal communication, including the restricted use of gestures, limited or inappropriate facial expressions, or a peculiar, stiff gaze.
- clumsy and uncoordinated motor movements".
This was the subject last night of a lengthy telephone discussion with my friend, Vlad. We agreed that we both suffer from this so-called disorder, to some degree (him, more than me, of course). Indeed, we thought most older men do.
I certainly can get preoccupied with a given subject for days on end (with him, it's more like months on end, maybe suggesting a compulsive-obsessive twist). And, with my back pain this week, my motor movements certainly were clumsy and uncoordinated (more than usual).
I also seem to have some repetitive routines. One of my favourites is my afternoon nap. Another is sharing a bowl of Cheetos with my dog at bed-time.
One routine I've developed that I'm not impressed with is waking up about 3 a.m. and having a cup of coffee while I review the latest interesting photos on Flickriver. That, of course, reinforces the need for a nap, later in the day.
Okay, enough of the self-analysis. Note that I made two posts today, proving that I haven't lost my touch in that regard.
It is actually the high end of autism spectrum. Yes I would agree there are many undiagnosed people with aspergers. I contend 4 of the doctors I know have it! People are very bright but socially inept. Perhaps why they chose jobs like programming, lab work, specialized services, etc. As for you and your friend, I think not. You have insight! And it sounds like social and emotional intelligence and a true focus in life. Your friend and you do have an intellectual relationship. Perhaps you are just Renaissance men! Or just old men! Never the less- keepers according to the women in your life!
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